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Re-posted in part from THINKLikeaBLACKBELT.org…

By Jim Bouchard

It’s simple, albeit not easy, to raise confident kids.

  • Choose your words carefully
  • Be a good example
  • Encourage
  • Provide challenging opportunities for growth
  • Support them in success and failure

Young Couple with Two Children (8-12) Walking on the BeachI’ve been working with kids for nearly 30 years and I can tell you that if you do those 5 things, your kid has a pretty good chance of growing into a confident and competent adult.

As I said; it’s simple, not easy!

It’s not easy particularly because you can do permanent damage to a child’s self-confidence if you’re not careful of the words you use and the example you provide.

Here are 8 things you must NEVER do if you want to raise confident kids…


Jim Bouchard is the founder of Northern Chi Martial Arts Centers and Master Instructor in Residence at our Brunswick, Maine Center.

Through martial arts, Jim Bouchard transformed himself from dropout, drug abuser and failure to successful entrepreneur and Black Belt. As a speaker and author of Amazon bestseller Think Like a Black Belt, Jim tours nationally presenting his philosophy of Black Belt Mindset for corporate and conference audiences. He’s a regular guest on TV and radio programs including FOX News, BBC Worldview and FOX Across America.

Learn more about Jim at JimBouchard.org and THINKLikeaBLACKBELT.org!

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Christmas GirlThe greatest gift you can give your children this Christmas is…


A recent study by the University of Pennsylvania concluded that self-discipline and a well developed sense of personal responsibility are the strongest indicators of good school performance and later success in life.

This study clearly validates what martial arts masters have been teaching for more than 2,000 years! If you want to be happy, productive and successful…practice learn and practice discipline!

And it’s never to late to learn!

One of my most requested topics when speaking for business audiences is discipline. The most successful people in life and business are those who never stop learning, growing and developing. There is no limit to one’s personal and professional growth.

The successful people I admire, study and model realize that discipline is a practice that needs constant attention. There is no point where you say, “OK, I’ve got it…” and that’s the end. Discipline is a practice…a never-ending practice.

Human beings are, in fact, creatures of habit. Discipline is an intentional habit- a habit you select. A habit that helps you get where you want to go.

Left without guidance, kids are extremely susceptible to negative habits…for that matter, adults are too! The more attention you give to developing discipline in your children, the better their chances for success and happiness now, and in the future.

I don’t know how you’re going to wrap it…but the most valuable gift you could put under the tree for your kids this year is…


Merry Christmas from everyone at Northern Chi!!!

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The next time your kids don’t want to practice…show them this story!

Personally, I would have made her a Black Belt…she already has more courage than most!


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Watch this video from FOX News and listen carefully to what the law enforcement officer is saying…

Child predators are clever and often subtle. We make it our business to understand their tactics and techniques. We teach your children how to avoid this situation and what to do if they find themselves in it. Here are some of the important tactics your child will learn at the Black Belt Mindset Institute at Northern Chi Martial Arts Center:

  • Do not talk with adult you don’t know without your parents present
  • Do not go anywhere with anyone you don’t know
  • Nobody has the right to put their hands on you…NOBODY
  • If someone strange is trying to get you to do anything, go find help

Once a child is grabbed by an adult attacker, that child is at an extreme disadvantage. We teach awareness and avoidance first. It’s irresponsible to teach that a child can defeat a much larger assailant; on the other hand we teach simple, intuitive fighting responses that can greatly improve a child’s chances of surviving and escaping an assault.

  • We teach them to kick, punch, bite and scratch an attacker
  • We teach them how to yell for help
  • We teach them where to run for help

We don’t teach children that they should “Never talk to strangers.” Why don’t we? Every new friend they will ever have starts out as a stranger. We don’t want to make kids paranoid, we want to make them aware. Instead, we teach them never to talk to strangers without their parents. We teach them that no adult has the right to approach a young person alone.

Nobody wants to thing about a child being abducted or assaulted. However, ignoring the potential does not make the threat go away. It’s our business to think about that possibility and to give your children the information and training that will give them the best chance of survival should the worst ever happen.

Don’t let your children go out into the world alone…until you bring them to us!

Download your FREE “Stranger Do’s and Don’ts” poster here!

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At the Black Belt Mindset Institute at Northern Chi Martial Arts Center, we have a realistic approach to children’s self-defense. They may think they can outfight an adult assailant; after all, that’s what they see on TV.

We teach kids that an adult has an overwhelming advantage in a violent attack. We teach them three simple rules:

  • Run!
  • If you can’t run…punch, kick, bite and…
  • SCREAM!!!

A 40 to 80 pound child cannot outfight an average adult. However, if they’re trained to stay alert, they’re much less likely to get into trouble. If they know some basic fighting tactics, they make the attackers job a lot more difficult, will attract attention and may even discourage the attack altogether. If they train to scream and yell for help, they become the attacker’s worst nightmare.

Guess which tactic saved the life of these two children in Philadelphia…

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It works for the Scouts, and it works for the average citizen. You are your first line of self-defense, as this 63 year-old man demonstrates in Florida…

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Portland Press Herald headline: Maine crime sees greatest jump since 1975

The biggest spike in crime in more than 35 years- and many of you thought it couldn’t happen here!

From the article by Kelly Bouchard:

Public Safety Commissioner John Morris said every crime category went up last year, except a slight decrease in robberies, according to a news release.
“Drugs are the main reason for the increase as addicts commit crimes to feed their habits,” Morris said. “Prescription drug abuse is responsible for much of the state’s drug problem. Although Maine continues to be one of the safest states in the country, the crime numbers are troubling.”

Troubling to say the least.

A criminal drug addict is a very focused individual. He is obsessed with one thing and one thing only- the next fix. If you just left the ATM with newly minted 20 dollar bills, or your medicine cabinet is stocked with Oxcycontin from your back surgery you are a likely target of violent crime. You are either in the way of or the source of the junky’s next high.

Both aggravated assaults and simple assaults increased in 2011. Aggravated assaults, which involve serious injury and usually a weapon, increased by 16.3 percent (884 cases in 2011 vs. 760 cases in 2010). Simple assaults increased by 15.3 percent (12,200 cases reported in 2011 vs. 10,581 simple assaults for 2010).

This is a significant increase. It’s time to pay attention. What can you do about it?

An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. In personal defense, this means learning the signs of an impending attack and becoming aware of habits that make you a likely target. Avoiding an attack is vastly preferable to a physical encounter, particularly with a singularly motivated and possibly psychotic drug addict.

Do you:

  • Walk around with your cell phone glued to your head?
  • Wear earphones while walking or jogging?
  • Look down when walking?
  • Park in dimly lit or unlighted spaces?
  • Leave your doors and windows open at home?
  • Use open-air ATM machines?
  • Count your money in public?
  • Post your illnesses or injuries on Facebook?
  • Post your vacations on Facebook?
  • Tag yourself out of the house on Twitter and Foursquare?

Any of these habits can make you an attractive target. In our two-hour intensive we cover what you should and should not be doing to avoid a potential threat. We teach you how to recognize impending danger and how best to avoid physical confrontation. We teach intuitive, practical and easy-to-learn tactics in case you exhaust all options and have to fight.

Of course many people in Maine live in rural areas and feel that “it just can’t happen to them.” Crime is up in the country as well as in town…

Crime in the rural areas increased 3.5 percent in 2011, while crime in the cities and towns increased by 6 percent.

We don’t want you to be paranoid. We want you to be AWARE. While anyone can be a target of violent crime, it’s much easier to avoid an assault than to have to fight your way out of it.

Spaces EXTREMELY limited to provide full attention to all participants…Click here to register TODAY!

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